Chill Out Revolution

Archive for July, 2009

http://tweetube.com/3Ng – Love chilling out in the sun with friends and family.

Stress less by adding more laughter in your life!  How many times do you laugh throughout the day? You’ll be surprised to find out how many people answer, “ZERO!”  Why do adults find it harder to laugh while kids can laugh at any given moment?  Adults feel that it’s silly to laugh, and kids just don’t think about laughing-they just laugh without paying attention to others.

Laughing is a fantastic tool that everyone should be using to deal with daily stress.

Laughing is free!  You don’t have to pay for it.  You just do it!

Laughing is easily shared by others.  Spread the joy of laughter!

It’s ok to act silly. Laugh by yourself. Laugh with your friends. Laugh with your family.  You officially have permission to laugh more in life!  It’s your responsibility to pass it on!

Take care and chill out! Stress Less, Hajii Otto, MS  The Chill Out Guru™

Quick tip about conflict management in your organization:

Sometimes you’ll have people in your organization that will try to sabotage you by starting up drama, creating conflict, stealing your ideas (concepts) or betraying your trust. The important thing to remember is to always maintain Emotional Control. Think before you confront these people with rational logic and facts. Don’t get caught up with all the emotional pain or anger they have caused you.

If you can confront this person, then discuss these issues in a non-threatening manner. State the facts first and allow that person to know you are open-minded to hear their side of the story. Discuss the situation with possible solutions.

You have options:

1) Forgive and Resolve- It was all a misunderstanding. Communication is the key.
2) Continue the partnership with reservations.
3) Terminate the partnership if the behavior continues.

Focus on the goal and not the emotion. Your goal is to work in a productive, happy working environment. Take control of the situation, and don’t allow other people to control your experiences in your job satisfaction. You can’t control if people steal your ideas (information), copy your style, gossip about you, or betray your trust. However, you can control your emotions on how these people affect you as a person and as a professional. Don’t get caught up with all the drama. The truth comes out and people always find out the true details later.

Life has a way of making these things work out. If this Trouble Maker(s) continues betraying people, then it will catch up to her/him. Other people will start to see a pattern with these types of conflicting personalities; thus, they will want to stay away from these sabotaging people. Keep focusing on your success in your personal and professional life. Don’t give these people your energy any more, because it will all come around. Remember to learn your lessons, forgive and let go. Life is too short to dwell on the past and now it’s time to move forward to the new possibilities of the future. Take control of conflict instead of conflict controlling YOU! The POWER is in your hands, now take it BACK! Stress LESS! Chilling out, Hajii

Sitting on the beach, working on projects.- then snorkling near the rocks. Relaxing sunday

Cameras in hand. Ready to people watch. Let the games begin.

Found a new samsonite spinner four wheels suitcase. Finally easier to travel with carry on. Less stress on body Haj

Finally sitting down in my home office and ready to get back to work. iTunes is on with motivating music. Jamming for motivation!

Just finished running in this super hot day but I was in the zone with great music. You got’ta love it when motivation finally kicks lat …

Mmmm got ta love garlicky mussesls and sweet spicy shrimp.

Another day leadership training and then relax by watching Harry Potter. Later later hajii

If you need to take an international trip, then you have to check out New Zealand as an option.  It’s a beautiful place, and you’ll have so many different things to see and do!  I’ve been there twice, and I loved everything about it!  If you’ve seen the movie “Lord of the Rings,” then you’ve seen the beauty of New Zealand.  It’s an amazing country, and the people are very friendly.  I’ll show you pictures later from my trips.  However, I thought I’d give you a taste of what New Zealand has to offer for any traveler in life.

Travel more in life, and stop waiting for the perfect time…  Just make a choice to travel somewhere, and make it happen now!   Traveling is great for the heart, spirit, and body!  It makes you more aware of all the beauty that sounds you in life! -Hajii Otto, MS the Chill Out Guru™

Staying up late tonight doing some recruitment program planning. I can’t believe Fall 2009 is around the corner!

Read 5 long chapters on Neuro! Who that was intense reading…lol

One of my dearest friends introduced me to Hoops and Yoyo, and they have brought me so much laughter.  Here’s another silly song “Do you like waffles?”  Take a break throughout the day to laugh or smile!

Take care, Hajii Otto, MS – the Chill Out Guru™

Here’s a good laugh for the day.  Don’t be afraid to tell the important people in your life that you love them. Come on, it’s not that hard to say those three little words, “I Love YOU.” You can do it!  Just say the words, one word at a time! “I” ….come on, you can do it…”Love”……. you’re almost there, “You!” I love you, I love you, I love you…..

Ok, do you feel better now?  Well there’s your good laugh for the day! Take care, the Chill Out Guru™- Hajii Otto, MS